She left, came back, still loves OM, what do I do

[kirby]

So, where do you get all this good stuff? Not just from the DB book.

Now, how do I know if I want to tell my wife what I've been doing wrong and that I'm sorry because I think it will impress her or because I want to tell her for me? I think, being honest with myself, I am hoping it's all a big misunderstanding and once I explain I'm sorry and I won't do it again, she'll say OK and commit to the marriage. Hard to break those thoughts.