Quote: Like you, if I understood your comment correctly, I don't think I could continue with working on the R if my W contacted the OM again. I'm so jealous and hurt, and fearful that she will go back to him, that I think I would respond with anger and divorce. I'm trying to prepare myself for the possibility and so I won't over react.
IMO, GH wrote the definitive answer on this but, bro, you're being awfully dramatic about this. Setting boundaries is fine, but artificial ultimatums (that you and I both know you don't really want nor mean) and so-called dealbreakers will just make you look and feel pretty immature if you're flying off the handle but aren't following through.
You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means. -- Inigo Montoya, 'The Princess Bride'
