She left, came back, still loves OM, what do I do

[kirby]

I'm starting to learn how to navigate around this bb. I found your first post, I think, and read your sitch, grasshopper. I was stunned to read my own story, at least at first. It sounded so similar. It helped me see what I was doing wrong, talking too much, over analysing, sounding like whining when I tried to talk about R instead of loving. Wow. It seems like there are a lot of us that are in this boat. It's nice to have company. I wish none of us were here.

It's encouraging to hear that your M is getting better. I have to admit it's a little discouraging to see how long it takes. At least things can get better.

Thanks for sharing. As I learn to navigate in here, and learn to put these ideas into action, I hope to be able to help other newcomers.

Thanks,