She left, came back, still loves OM, what do I do

[kirby]

I haven't figured out how to use the Quote function yet, so I'll cut and paste.

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"Don't believe half of what they say, and ignore the other half." It's because when someone is in that bizarre mindset, they say and do things to provoke you..."

Does that mean you shouldn't believe them when they say the things you want to hear (except the one thing you want to hear,that they are in love with you again)? My wife says many of the things I want to hear, and she acts with caring toward me. She is honest and tells me she still loves the OM, and not me, but am I wrong for having hope based on her actions and words? Maybe I need a good slap of reality.