Quote: For me, realizing that my H is simply who he is (which has never been particularly open or honest) means I have to accept it for now
I would agree with this, but with qualifications. I know my W is the kind of woman who keeps things bottled up and then explodes when it gets too much for her. She is not open or honest when it comes to her feelings and this I accept. What I cannot accept is if she is going to continue to be dishonest about her actions as they relate to cheating, etc. It's one thing to be a guarded person, not comfortable with expressing the "truth" about how you feel/think, it's quite another to be untruthful in matters such as an OP or the like.
