How much does money/income tie into a man's self worth?
Well... I think when they are in MLC it doesn't matter how much they make or what they achieve, it's never enough! I think following MLC they are much more realistic and more self-accepting.
Quote: We currently are trying to dig ourselves out of a huge financial hole.
Welcome to the club!!!!
Quote: I am worried that this will cause him to resent me and find happiness (based in non-reality) with OW again.
In general OP can be very costly (OW cost us a bloody arm and leg!!!). Hopefully that would be a deterent to your husband.
Have you tried budegting with a program like Excel? We've been doing that. Of course, it doesn't erase the debt. That's going to take time.
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
