What to expect...part three

[cat03]

I also handle the finances and get the pleasure of being on charge of paying the nice huge ccard debts H brought back.

I'm guessing there is no plan on how to handle your financial sitch so that' s why it comes up all the time. Make one, write stuff down, that way you won't feel like bringing it up over and over again.
One way we are paying H's huge cc bills are we are transfering the balance to a 0 percent rate (and possible purchases) card for 12 mths, check online and you might even find one that wont' charge you a balance transfer (Discover has such offers)
Of course the cards would have to be used only in emergencies, so not to augment the debt.