Continuing the Money discussion from yesterday on Grasshoppers thread;
How much does money/income tie into a man's self worth?
We currently are trying to dig ourselves out of a huge financial hole. I have gone back to work to help out but we still do not bring home enough to cover all of our bills, not to mention necessities. Since I handle the finances it is constantly on my mind as I worry about it all the time. Lately it seems whenever we talk it is about money and then my H gets in a mood (call it denial or anger) and has to hang up. The other day he won $1000 on a scratch off card, while that helps this month what about next month? By my talking about it all the time is this making him feel like a failure or is that what two equal partners who share a life together suppossed to do?
I am worried that this will cause him to resent me and find happiness (based in non-reality) with OW again.
