Hey hon, I'm sending you a virtual hug)))))))))) and my best wishes. Will keep you in my prayers and may the Lord grant you strenght and wisdom for piecing your M.
About him calling ow, when you found out and had the talk w/him, was it agreed that he should never contact her or did he leave that option open? I know lots of LBS have to put up w/their spouses thinking it is ok to contact the op, on my case I made it clear and had my H agree that any contact w/ow was not to be tolerated.
I wonder if he thinks it is ok /w you that he calls her.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.