Root,
I imagine H gave OW all kinds of attention, affection and gifts (see cc statements for proof).

Things between us really are no better. He writes in his daily notes ILY but rarely does he say it or show it.

I do think he appreciates me more now that I am working. We are now more like a team combating this huge mountain of debt we are in.

Last night as he was crashing on the sofa I went over and kissed him and we briefly spoke of the fact that we are polar opposites; he gets up early/I get up late (if you call 7 a.m. late), he goes to bed early/I go to bed late.
We never seem to be in sync with eachother. I am planning on putting on some cute lingerie on X-mas eve while we are frantically wrapping gifts so we will see where that goes.