I just feel like we are both running in circles but never meeting in the middle. That huge white elephant is still in the room. I wish there was some crystal ball where I could see what H is really thinking and doing and where we end up in the future.
Hey Mama sometimes I think we just have to hang out and sort of "go with the flow" of things for awhile. In the meantime I think it's still important to keep GAL and not lose ourselves in this whole thing. One of my biggest past mistakes was trying to be perfect and worrying about every little thing in my marriage. I was like a Stepford Wife! I now realize it's important to be myself and concentrate on just trying to be friends with my husband.
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
