Quote: My problem is I feel guilty for not being here. I have to work because we desparetly need the money and these hours work best for our family.
Is there some reason you can't share that with H? "H, you got a shoulder to lean on? I feel pretty miserable and guilty when I'm not home with you and the kids because I have to work late. I know it is the best thing for us right now, but I hate feeling like I'm letting y'all down."
(1) Buy him some candy briefs for men, wrap them up, give him the package, and tell him you feel like a snack.
(2) Do not fake orgasms. Make sure when you have sex the next time you have an O, even if you have to do it yourself. Unless you are a rare woman on a good day, this will probably not happen during intercourse. You can always ask him to assist in various ways. I'd suggest asking him to talk dirty to you.
(3) Ask for an Eroscillator for Christmas. A very pricey toy, but worth it. Then, keep it on hand for when you get turned down and when you don't.
