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My point is, yeah, he probably was up to no good in some way, but you have no idea what way. The question is, what are you going to do about it?




That is the thing, there really is NOTHING I can do about it because it is silly to assume anything. Maybe he really was just busy and distracted.

My problem is I feel guilty for not being here. I have to work because we desparetly need the money and these hours work best for our family. So it would seem that I may be projecting my feelings onto him.

I am always trying to fix everything and make sure that everyone is happy and NOT mad at me. You would think after being here for almost 1 year I would learn that I cannot control others.

So, I am going to try to let this go and act as if everything is ok.

OT, Now that I have you here, any addtional advice on the lack of intimacy in my sitch that you could offer would be greatly appreciated.