BND, GH & Ali, Thank you so much for sharing with me; especially such personal stuff.
It's strange, I am deprived for a few weeks and I feel worthless and hopeless. Our sex life before the A was barely nonexistent to say the least, we would go months without doing anything and this went on for years. I can't imagine how this made my H feel. If only he would have opened up to me and told me of his dissappointment instead of crying on the shoulder of OW - man, how she must have eaten this up. H played right into her hands (the little homewrecking B!)
Anyway, enough about her. She means absolutely nothing to me. I just have to start doing things that make me feel good about myself as well as continuing to do things that makes my H feel wanted and loved. After all, like Ali says, life is what you make of it!
