Can't lure them in and pin them up against the wall at the same time, can we? In my sitch, I know acting as if I'm sexy and desirable works along with asking for what I want (and being willing to get a "no"!" But, I can see where maybe being emotionally approachable and loving and not demanding works to draw him closer too. Making him comfortable with being intimate with me, but owning my sexuality and needs and not being afraid to express it regardless of his reaction.
So hard to know what to do! I've started a thread in piecing. If you get a chance, I'd appreciate your support and input.
