GOOD MORNING sWEETIE,, YOU KNOW WHAT I WANTED TO SAY TO YOU?

I THOUGHT OF THIS YESTERDAY AS I WAS WONDERING HOW TO HELP YOU,,,,,

Maybe your h is just as nervous as you,,,,, maybe he feels like you do not "want" him,,,,,

And who the h*ll say s you are not still the sexy , amazing, awesome Woman you were when you met?? YOU!

I do the same d*amn thing,, I compare myself to the Ow and you know what wanting to help you get out of this funk has actually blessed me .....
Who In Gods name has said we arent sexy etc etc noone,, we placed that upon uourselves,,,,,

You are awesome when he got involved with the OW it wasnt b/c you arent desirable it was b/c he felt undesirable,,,

I know for me that when we were seperated and I started to let my guard down and show him how I felt that things started changing,,,,,,

I always found him desrable but never showed it I figured I am not soo sexy he doesnt need me and I was sooooooooooooo wrong!

You alone have decided you are not desirable just as I had( and sometimes still do) stop doing that today and be the sexy confident WOMAN you are underneath all the fear and self doubt and you will see the results are amazing.
I used to also think it was selfish of me to want and to want to be desired ...

~~~~ BECAUSE GEEZ I am a MOM and a WIFE and I stopped being a Woamn and that is what they need most of all for us to be confident and love ourselves and then show them how much we love them.
It is in you deep in there buried under all the pain of him choosing someone else and so please try to find her again and like I said you will soon then see that the results are AMAZING,,, let yourself feel beautiful and loved. You are so worth it and you need to believe that in order to live it.

The OW is sitting there just fine and justified in who she is and we decide that well maybe we are not good enough B*LLSH*T.

And like I said this has helped me open my eyes sooooo much,,,, D*MN IT we are awesome and we need to stop giving her so much D*MN power......


I havent forgotten her or all the pain I have felt or how inferior I felt and sometimes still do.

......but I doubt she is walking around comparing herself to us so we need to stop and realize how beautiful we are and be happy,, we do not owe her being sad and caught up in her,,,,
,,,, we owe it to ourselves to love ourselves and be the best we are and enjoy our M.

You are Beautiful Mama start Today to love yourself more and stop worrying so much,, you can do this !!!!!!!!!!( and you know what I want to do this too!! )
GOD BLESS...