Luke, So sorry to hear about bomb #4 (that puts you one up on me now!). But keep in mind that she SAYS she wants to move out in the next six months, she hasn't done so yet. That gives you time to see the counsellor, put a plan of action in place and start working at it. Also, even if she does move out that doesn't necessarily end things, you just DB from a different position. I know it all seems so bleak right now, and it may well be, but remember things can and do change, sometimes for the better. Don't give up yet! I'd put off any letter writing etc until you've had time to process this latest crap and have seen the counsellor. Wow, how much sh!t is on guy supposed to take! I know.