What I meant was that I haven't talked to any friends here about our M problems. I thought it might be good to bend a sympathetic male friends's ear, but this is a guy whose wife is a friend of my W's, so that the knowledge of our problems would spread to my W's friend also, and then via this spreading, more people would know "Luke and his W are having problems", and so it becomes accepted fact and the social stigma would be removed and it would be okay to D.
Maybe it would be better to wait for the private counselor on Wednesday - I don't need to share with a friend - you are right -
Thanks for your thoughts -
Luke
M58, xW54 S22, D18 M 1984, D 2016 Living a new life.
