Hi again (please see previous post, Astimegoeson, this is just an addon),

Does talking to a friend about your relationship problems, and my W would know I was doing this, somehow sanction/approve of the problems? I don't want to legitimize them by having knowledge of them spread and hence make them okay.

Grateful for any pointers -

a confused Luke


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