Luke, you aren't seriously going to give this to her are you? A list of all her "poor" behaviours versus all your "good" behaviours! What the heck for? I dunno Luke but it seems you've only been DBing for a couple of months, isn't the ultimatum a little heavy here? Sure, she says and does lots to push you away but that's what they do. Are there any other strategies you can try and give them time? I know it sucks but I just feel like maybe you're trying to push this too fast. What 180's can you do? Have you tried detachment (God knows, I'd like to!) or even just give her the space she wants for now and GAL your butt off. You know she's having an A, so what? Again, it still doesn't change what you have to do to turn it around. What do you think?
