My W wasn't sick, just lazy, reading old New Yorkers all day, in bed. I wanted to be give her a gift of sorts, so brought up food, thinking that my kindness might be repaid. It wasnt' - next day I got excoriated for setting up lunch just for her - oh well - too much pursuing, and you aren't supposed to do that in LRT. She very carefully says thank you whenever I give her food (I am the cook and butler here), establishing a boundary somehow.
Her mood over Christmas was okay, now is sourer, she doesnt' talk much. I gather this might be caused by my preventing her from seeing OM (I don't travel for a few weeks still).
Today she said I look pale, particuarly my lips (?). Why should this inconsequential thing matter to her? (I am healthy, according to a test this weekend my marathon time will be under 5 hours).
Yeah, I need to crack into and shake up her date other people thing. Will run Imago idea by her tomorrow, when both kids are finally at school again.
Gotta run - it is getting lighter earlier and darker later here - yay - we are on the upstroke again -
Luke
M58, xW54 S22, D18 M 1984, D 2016 Living a new life.
