Well, if she won't go...go for yourself. You have to find just the right time to approach the subject...maybe when the kids are asleep...she's reading a book - just say something like: You know, I've been thinking about our M and I went and saw, or am going, to talk to a MC to see where there can be improvements made for both of us...would you like to go with me? Something like that...
I'm glad you read the Imago website - boy, was I surprised when it was written in a different language...lol. I hope you make some progress with the situation - however, it does seem to be rather calm now...keep up the spirits, and have a wonderful New Year!!!!!
