((((ERIC)))) THANKS.....YOU MADE MY DAY!!!! Glad to hear that I didn't make you sad! Everyone makes mistakes and no one deserves to have those mistakes held over their heads the rest of their lives. People can be truly sorry for the things they did and can make up for the mistakes they made. I don't think I am in anyway special for forgiving my H. I love him with all my heart and I have always felt that if God can forgive me for my sins,how can I not forgive others! You sound like a man knows he has made mistakes,accepts responsibility for them and is trying hard to make up for them. You also sound like a man who can forgive others their mistakes. You sound like you love your W very much and will do everything you can to make your R with her a happy and fulfilling one. I think she is lucky to have you for her H!! I hope that she will get the help she needs and soon you will start to see some real changes. Try to stay strong! Remember that you have a friend who will support you,comfort you,help in any way possible,pray for you and above all be here for you!! Pat
