Thanks for your two very good points. I certainly don't want to condone the affair - at all, in any way - but I don't like her getting a call while in my daughter's room that she can't talk normally on, and then quickly channging the subject with my daughter afterward.
So limits are set by my actions - for example, walking out of the room when she gets such a call? I'd like to get some more respect from her, but am not sure how to do this. How does one set and enforce a limit on your spouse? Is that even possible? My vision of love was always a freely given thing, anyway, and so this is contrarian for me.
Night now, with amber colored lights on the other shore,
Luke
M58, xW54 S22, D18 M 1984, D 2016 Living a new life.
