Hi again,

Today's questions - is a happy marriage between the two of us possible and is the effort involved worth it?

I've been trying to get a handle on the differences between my W and I, this to prepare for a counselling session. I anticipate that she will not want to go along, so some description of her will be necessary.

Do you think my wife, who might be described as 'dominant, territorial, competitive, a man in a woman's body, likes a fight" and myself, who might be described as "the person behind the leader, non-competitive, and territorial only when pushed, a natural conflict avoider" actually could be happily married? We were reasonably happily married a few years ago - I guess - but now something has changed and our personalities are maybe more expressed than before, so the answer here isn't necessarily yes.

is there something else that a counsellor might want to know and that I can prepare for? I've had a few DB sessions and prepared for them with organized questions and thoughts.

OnTheBeach - what do you look under in the phone book here in Sweden to find a marriage counselor? Do you have a recommendation? I live near Stockholm.

W at Swedish lessons - hope it doesn't come to where I suspect her every absence as being an opportunity for
cheating -

Grayish and drizzly - thanks -

Luke



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