O I am not and never will be strong enough to match her in personality – “all of the boy friends I ever really loved were strong”, “I can always baffle you and win an argument”, “my dad (who passed away long ago) would have dissuaded me from marrying you” etc.
Give me a break!!!!!! That's too ridiculous. In general women often have better verbal skills while men are often more physical, good at math, fixing things, etc...
Well keep DBing and work on you. All the physical stuff you're doing (working out) sounds great!!! Get those endorphins going!
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.