Ola sofaraway, 12102006 and ConfusedMess,

Thanks for all your mails and thoughts. There are a couple in particular that I took to heart - the MakingHerHappy link (yeah, it does feel like she is testing me sometimes, maybe even now, or maybe expressing in an extreme way a cry for help), the professional help idea (have had 3 DB sessions, but widely spaced; could try here in Sweden, but we have a high divorce rate and I want to be sure that an improved marriage is the goal, not an 'easy Swedish solution' with us divorced), and to look up FrankD's posts, which I'll do after this.

W is in Stockholm just now, giving a corporate identity presentation.

Weightlifting going fine and marathon training started, blue sky, but with light gray coulds covering parts, small waves going every which way on the lake,

Luke


M58, xW54
S22, D18
M 1984, D 2016
Living a new life.