Well crap. I'm sick and so is he and so is the baby and we aren't going to dinner. Then, H leaves on a 2 night business trip. I will have to talk with him about this next week. That is, unless he comes back from his trip a changed man - ha ha.
Thank you Nop and I will still be addressing this. It won't go away anytime soon. I agree about the more children thing. Actually, I think I am done anyway but I know he wouldn't mind more. We agreed a while ago that we won't do anymore extreme measures to have another. However, last pregnancy he was all over me. This one, not at all. Maybe he's more afraid because of the medical intervention involved in having this one. Maybe he's sad that this is probably our last one. Maybe this is just the way he sees our R - Mom and Dad. When we can stop coughing, sneezing and shaking with fever we'll talk.