Quote; --------------------------------------------- Yeah - my only concern is sounding like a hysterical pregnant chick, easily dismissed. It seems that my concerns around this subject usually just get brushed off in a haze of - "K, don't you remember that we've been sick, working our tails off, had responsibilities, various stressors etc..." Only, I just don't see ANY of this stuff as an excuse for no intimacy, he see's all of these as a perfect excuse. ---------------------------------------------
I didn't think a "hysterical pregnant chick" wrote your post, so don't deliver it that way, just firm and assertive.
It may also be appropriate to consider/discuss not having additional children until the sexual part of your relationship can be addressed.
All the best! -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.