i understand that the whole baby deal sounds very scary. This is our second one together - first boy. He continues to talk about yet another (I can' t even see it). I can imagine that he has some fears around this subject but I don't think they are much more than every guy's worry about providing for his family. KWIM?
All,
Thanks for the encouragement. I don't expect much, frankly.
Nop,
Yeah - my only concern is sounding like a hysterical pregnant chick, easily dismissed. It seems that my concerns around this subject usually just get brushed off in a haze of - "K, don't you remember that we've been sick, working our tails off, had responsibilities, various stressors etc..." Only, I just don't see ANY of this stuff as an excuse for no intimacy, he see's all of these as a perfect excuse.