Quote: ----------------------------------------------------- I addressed a few weeks ago when he yelled at me for something small that he appears to always be "mad at me" lately. He said I would need to give examples at the time that something happens and I pointed out that when he already seems ticked it doesn't seem like a good time. He replied that "you can't just wait forever." Now, I'm not waiting forever. I'm going to have to let him know that since we got pregnant this summer he has acted like a man having an affair, battling an addiction to something (drugs, porn, gambling) or who is biding his time until he can leave the marriage at a more convenient time. I come in the house and he goes the other direction, if I bring up work (which is all my personal life currently consists of) he changes the topic, if I bring up plans around the baby (getting the room in shape, whether it is safe to be 2 hours from the hospital in my 37th week) he "can't deal with that now", he goes to bed before or after me as much as possible, he doesn't want to have sex and when the doc says not to have sex it doesn't even occur to him that there are other sexual activities we could do, even the passionate pecks have practically ceased. Well, I plan to tell him that a lot of women would be considering hiring a private detective after five months like that. -----------------------------------------------------
I think that you should deliver the above statements, mostly unedited, with the same load of testosterone that you used to write it.
As for the potential of an affair, normally his behavior would send up all my flags, but only if your pregnancy wasn't a potential issue. As is, I would give it three out of five.
How did he treat you during your last pregnancy?
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
