Funny that you are thinking this way, Karen. I started a response to cemar's thread about the Deida book, and started on a long analysis of Nopkins' old statement, "An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and a lack of respect."
I'm basically trying to tear it apart. But I got a little carried away (going on three pages so far), and now I have to head out to my therapist appointment.
Just wanted to let you know that there are others who are thinking along the same lines.
