Hope you had a very Merry Christmas. H's tendonitis continued to hurt the past few days although he seems to be getting somewhat better. He commented in the car that he was hoping we would find some time this week (I'm off work all week) to have an "afternoon nap" and he would have to be creative about the hip pain. This is the first sexual remark he has made in over two months. I still haven't had a moment to talk to him. We have had too many guests, places to go and opposing sleep schedules for me to bring something up - going to see relatives with red swollen eyes or arguing the hour before the house fills up with people just doesn't seem like a good idea. The thing is - at least he has said something to open the discussion. I am just stunned (as usual) that he can let our SL go for months on end, then make a mild sexual comment with no follow up. Is it appeasing me? Is the purpose for me to jump in the driver's seat. Damn it - I just hate this game. I guess I have found his outside limit for mentioning it, I just haven't found his outside limit for doing something about it.
DD2 is wearing big girl panties for the last three days! She is great! Christmas was very nice and H did a lovely photo collage for my office with all sorts of family photos starting with our wedding. It is one of the most personal gifts he has ever given me. I was very touched by it and appreciate it greatly. He is a very good guy - if an absolute idiot about some things. He also bought College football National Championship t-shirts for the whole family - our alma mater's play each other for the first time ever on Jan 8 - should be fun.
