HP,

Thanks. I have no doubt that you are completely right. He is mad at me because I am mad at him. He may have started it originally but then again he tends to be such a bear when getting re-organized after trips he may think I started it. Who cares really? I have started (in the last couple of days) to mentally let him off the hook and that will go a long way toward bringing this up without it choking in my throat. You are so much more patient than I about tolerating your H's communication (or lack thereof) style and yet, keeping your agenda on the table. I just end up getting led astray of my agenda or just agreeing with him "Yeah, must be the stress" to get out of the ridiculous circular convo.

I'm not too bad for a 39yo preggo babe. Had to laugh. MIL sent me a nightgown and robe fit for an 80 year old lady in a nursing home in a fetching shade of "baby blue" - even H laughed when I said how lovely it would look on me when I am ready for the nursing home! She meant it for the hospital and I appreciate the gesture. Luckily, she won't be attending the birth and will never know that I didn't wear it.

Karen