Yes, I do and it really just doesn't make any sense at all does it? However, the longer he makes it clear that not only does he not understand much about me, he doesn't care to the less I do want to have sex with him. I KNOW what motivates me to want him - it is a pretty long list. What makes him want me? Not much.
GGB,
Your post made me tear up. Yes, I know you are right and I have put things to him in just the way you suggested time and time again. Every time I do it is heard as criticism, complaining and me being nigh unto a sex mainiac. I will think about it and see how it makes sense to approach things.