Well Journey, I'm seeing it as having little choice in the matter. I could probably have sex with H if I did all the work and then later feel more frustrated and undesirable or I could bring it up, we could have an argument, then I will feel ungrateful and nagging and he will feel like "See, who would want to have sex with someone who just doensn't understand all I am going through." There just isn't any use in that. So, I will enjoy Christmas with my babies and sundry friends and relatives and pretend that I am an LD preggo (hard to be LD when I am sporting this tremendous rack right now!!).
