I just re-read the types. Oh wow - I think I get it. I didn't read the types with H in mind the first run through. Now, I think I get it. I think I am a 2 "the helper" and H is a four "the individualist". There is an inherent conflict there. What do you think? (Remember he is an ENTJ but he has so many reclusive behaviors that I think the "E" is self created rather than an actual preference) - maybe?
