I am usually ridiculously horny the whole 1st and 2nd trimester, not so interested the third and start getting interested about four weeks after delivery. So - I guess I'm weird ( I already knew that actually).
NOooo.. not at all. that's what I'm saying: you're "normal". ("we're" normal! LOL!). Its the spouses who aren't. "other ladies get horny when pg...not my W". "other spouses respond this way to "x"...not mine". MIL, who is at least somewhat aware of our sitch , once commented to me, "you know, a glass of wine has been known to put ladies in the mood"...like this was some kind of grand revelation to me. HA! Puts W to sleep quicker than sominex. In fact, any alcohol is pretty much a *guarantee* that there ain't gonna be any tonight. I told her that...kinda let the wind right out of her sails. no easy answers.
Quote: ... It has caused me to question where and how you are getting your sexual needs met...
why would you question that? he doesn't have any; that's the whole problem. Of course, how would I know that? I don't. but that's the way it is here. its the very least of my worries. Hey--another "bright side" point. the glass is half FULL....
, once commented to me, "you know, a glass of wine has been known to put ladies in the mood"...like this was some kind of grand revelation to me. HA! Puts W to sleep quicker than sominex. In fact, any alcohol is pretty much a *guarantee* that there ain't gonna be any tonight. I told her that...kinda let the wind right out of her sails. 
the glass is half FULL....