Oh but Karen, you are sabotaging yourself if you don't get this body language under control. NO ONE is going to want to approach someone sexually if you are putting out the body language and vibes that you are.....right now you are telling him you don't want him. Yet, you want him to initiate sex with you? Doesn't make sense hon.
I know, I know....you have been the one to put on the happy face in the past. You have to DEAL IN NOW though...not months or years ago (that is if you want him to do what you want). Right now you know that you are in a "sexual drought" and you are already getting pissed off about how much longer it's going to last.....yet you are sending out signals that will guarantee it will last.
No one says you have to put out all the efforts you have in the past, just don't make the task an impossible one. I mean right now you want your night in shining armor to slay the dragon, do you really want to be a dragon and make it that hard on him? The harder you make it for him to approach you....the lower the likelihood that he will.
We are ALL entitled to down time and black moods. If that's what you are going through then just cut yourself some slack on it and get it out of your system....but recognize too that right now....you aren't likely to get from him what you are wanting, until your mood lightens back up some.
