Well - the drought continues. I am halfway between seething internalized anger and laconic disregard for the whole subject. It is an odd spot. I continue to not address it - on purpose. I want to see how long it takes until he cares, notices or comments on us not having a sex life. Of course, his ability to not address will probably outstrip mine. We are at almost 2 months now.
Baby must be parked in a bad spot (sciatic nerve) because I limped for two days with pain going all the way down one leg. I'm sure, if asked, H would say that I clearly wasn't "up to" sex. It is better now - baby must have moved. He very often uses my tiredness, little cold, minor ache or pain to defend HIS lack of interest. He knows for a fact that I have said always ask and if I'm not up to it I will let you know. He doesn't ask.
