As weird as it sounds I actually wish H and I would "fight", we are both passive/aggressive but neither one of us lets the other know what is bothering us and that is bad. Money is a big issue with me, for one we don't have any and H spends like we do. We talk about it and he will say he needs to stop spending but he doesn't so then I silently hold a grudge. Any ideas on how to get past that?
I am also proud of your attitude regarding the gym. Does OM still work there? You are showing your wife that you trust her. If she chooses to betray that trust then I really think GH might choose a different path this time. Hopefully you never have to go there.
