Hi GH Thanks for sharing the bump in the road. It helps to see that we all have ups and downs on this journey and they're a normal part of the process. I was thinking yesterday about your sitch and how intertwined we can become in a M. I have that prob with J.. and start living in reaction to where he is. Isn't it easy to get drawn back into that cycle? Your posts have made me realize how much of my GAL I've dropped and that I need to get back on track in the new year! Do you think your W focuses too much on you also? I've noticed that when I'm over focusing on our R, that I start to feel like something is missing because I'm neglecting my needs and things that will fulfill me as an individual. Our partners just can't be up to providing it all and when J has a rough day, and I'm looking to him for happiness.. well, things feel off for me too.
Thanks for sharing the bump in the road. It helps to see that we all have ups and downs on this journey and they're a normal part of the process. I was thinking yesterday about your sitch and how intertwined we can become in a M. I have that prob with J.. and start living in reaction to where he is. Isn't it easy to get drawn back into that cycle? Your posts have made me realize how much of my GAL I've dropped and that I need to get back on track in the new year! Do you think your W focuses too much on you also? I've noticed that when I'm over focusing on our R, that I start to feel like something is missing because I'm neglecting my needs and things that will fulfill me as an individual. Our partners just can't be up to providing it all and when J has a rough day, and I'm looking to him for happiness.. well, things feel off for me too.
