well, after you saying that she's kept in shape while you've slacked off, doesn't seem as bad now.
But I'm sure the whole problem was you trying to fix yourself for mostly her, and not for yourself. That's where we get into problems, because we've been in a crisis mode and doing everything we can, and yes it makes us feel better and happier, but somehow after it "works" we find ourselves slacking back into our old selves. I mean, we've been our old selves for how many years? and we've been DBing for what? hardly anything in comparison probably. so it's only logical that we would slip back into our old ways because we have found a comfort zone again. however, all these changes we know make ourselves better. So why do we do this? I really think the main reason is that we aren't fully changing ourselves for just US.
I know that I need to take my own advice too. But we can do it!
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
