GH, I'm sorry to hear about your bad weekend too. I really messed up on mine as well. I think that we are somewhat close to the same boat, but I'm done the stream a little farther.
There have been a couple times where I've brought up the past and he's like, can't we be over this, is this going to happen every week?
Also, since he's come "back", I have stopped doing things for myself too. I haven't worked out, or worked on my music, or gone out. I guess I just went back to the be a mom and wife thing again. So I totally understand where your coming from.
Totally don't be worried about the 2 lbs, that's just absurd. That really doesn't matter, and I don't think it is the problem either.
Why don't you take initiative to have the kids eat healthier, maybe even talk to them seperately without her knowing and then when they start eating better with you, she'll be pleasantly suprised?
Just remember to not get defensive, I know that is so hard to do, but it just makes things worse and it doesn't resolve anything either.
keep your head up! and start focusing on YOU again. and I will try to also
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
