GH, I'm so sorry that your weekend went so badly. I think DB'ing is going to have to be a way of life for us. Just like people who go on a diet to lose weight; once the weight is off they tend to go back to the way things were and thus regain the weight. Just because our spouse decided to stay in the marriage does not give us license to put our feet up and let our hair down, ya know?
I can't really imagine that she is mad at you for gaining a couple of pounds, that is just where she projected her anger. Cause quite frankly if that is the case then she is very superfical (sp). While it is great to be in good shape and healthy there are very few people in this country that actually are. Just my two cents.
I tend to agree with OT (who wouldn't, right?) that she is upset by other things, possibly OM, and does not know how to communicate her frustrations to you for fear that you will be condescending or agrumentative or defensive, etc.
Don't be so hard on yourself, we all still love ya
