okay, I guess either I'm just niave or really blonde, but what the heck is an eroscillator?
Grasshopper, I only read this last page, so I'm not sure what everyone else has been saying, but here's my two cents.
Even though I'm totally not into ML during my period, partly religious reasons, and partly just because but it sounds like it isn't a real problem for her.
In my opinion, being a woman, depending on your W, and how her periods are, she could have really bad cramps, bloating, all that stuff and have no desire to have you "bangin" her! haha. Especially on the first day or two when it is worse, so I can see why she didn't want to today, or yesterday whenever it was.
Also, Every week before a woman has her period, we become very emotional, or angry, or bi-polar, or whatever during this pms time, which I know you've heard so much about! For me, I get depressed and emotional, and little things my H will say will want to make me cry. So, if you say she's started this self conscious thing this last week, then it would totally make sense.
It might be a good idea to have her periods marked on a calendar of yours or something so you don't get freaked out thinking your totally messing up, when it's just her having a rush of hormones. I wish my H would do that, but he can't even stand me saying the word "period"! It grosses him out. oh well.
Another thing that might help her with the body problem is maybe inviting her to work out with you? or start playing racketball or something, or taking walks at night.
okay. hope I didn't repeat anyone elses advice!! I don't get on the computer too often, and everyone on here just writes so much that I can't keep up! I don't know how you all do it all the while helping everyone else!
-not to hi-jack the thread, but OT and GrassH, do you think you might check out stillhangin's thread. He's got some ideas for his W for xmas and I really don't know if it would be good or not. I'm pretty much the only one posting on his thread right now. Thanks a bunch!
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
but it sounds like it isn't a real problem for her. 
