Yea, this came up when I actually made a little passive/agressive comment the other day. She was questioning my not answering MY phone (ironic, isn't it?) and I said something to the effect "You know if I wanted to not talk to you, I could just block you from calling me." She responded with "Yes, I know you can...now." This was two days after the convo where she said he tried to contact her again and she said it with a "knowing" smile.
She had already said he would not be a problem anymore so I guess I filled in the gap.

I believe she blocked him but I guess I don't know for sure. I could ask but I really don't find it to be an issue. I don't think he's what's causing my anger, but like I said OT, I'll scream my a$$ off in my car today on the way home, lol. Anyway, I just need to focus on my/our stuff right now. Until THAT particular issue becomes a problem again, I will deal with it then.

The bottom line is that whenever she's mentioned him for the past few months (and that has been all of about twice), it's been with either fear, disgust or apathy. It's not like she seems hung up on him or anything. It seems like he's tried to contact her a few times, maybe more than a few times and she's tired of it.

I don't really have any worries in that department. As I said before, if she is still doing something behind my back, she's learned a WHOLE lot more about how to do it on the "sly" than before because there is no evidence of it this time.

Onward and upward. Thanks for the help today OT, Ali, TL and Mama (did I leave anyone out?).

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