My guess is that he did think about her. It may have been a fleeting thought, or it may have been longer thoughts - concern.
But the important thing is that it wasn't affection.
Like U, I don't want you to take my words as minimizing your feelings. There's no right or wrong when it comes to feelings.
So when you get these feelings, just ride it out, Pat. You've posted so much positive stuff about how well you've done getting over it. You've often posted that as time goes on, it gets better and better.
