THANKS EVERYONE!!! Wanted you all to know that I made it through the day!! Did get out with a friend and went shopping. It was pouring down rain but it was nice to get out and put things out of my mind!! It sure helped venting here yesterday morning and it did help me to put things into perspective!! You will be happy to hear that I had a smile on my face and not a thought in my head about the XOW when my H got home from work!! I kept my big mouth shut and we had a very very nice evening together !! This morning I feel great...the rain has stopped...my mind is free of nasty thoughts!! (Mattie....even though I try really really hard to be a nice person and I try to not wish harm on anyone,I did get a big smile from the thought you had !!..actually I felt so bad later about thinking that it was such a great idea, I decided that I only wanted her house and car to flood!! ....Lord,I'm such a B*#@H sometimes!!) Anyway...thanks for caring everybody and thanks for always being here for me no matter how large or small my problem!! YOU GUYS ARE THE BEST !!!!