Nikki- Popped over and read some and skimmed over some on your post. WOW what can I say, I am really sorry about what you are going through. It is good to see the opposite side of things, granted my sitch is simlar but not quite the same, I am willing to sacrifice for my M. Yes I think that I will have to answer some questions but I will handle that with care. But thanks for the advice I would have made a mistake then, I thought for sure that the it would be the opposite response that I should tell him what happened. I have not forced a friendship between the two of them but there is one developing, H even asked last week if Friend would want to play in a card toury that H was organizing, which I thought that was cool. I keep kicking myself for letting this happen. I have been thinking all week what if I would have reacted differently, like I did the first time this happened with him. Well at that time he did not confess is love for me, but I told him that we were too good of friends and I would not let that happen. And what the out come would have been. I know that I can not change what I did or how I reacted just deal with that I am going to do about it, I know that is the correct DB thing to do.
